A new direction....where you are going and what you are leaving behind

I just got back from 2 weeks of travel. Part of my travels included visiting a masters program that would entail a 2 year full time commitment and a move cross country, ending most likely, with another move upon graduation. Without a doubt a big step...and my biggest question thus far has been: is this step in the right direction?

I have spent so much time researching this option and with more dedication than any other decision I can recall. When I went to visit this program, I expected to have what my career coach calls an "ah-ha moment." It didn't happen. So now what?

My research on the program tells me that there is nothing wrong with this step in my career. It is an area of study I am interested in. The program is custom and small and allows me to adapt my studies based on my own experiences and interests. The college town is quaint and friendly and I have good, long time friends nearby. Where is the hesitation coming from?

Upon my return home, I was catching up on correspondence and read an article posted by a friend on FB. The post, entitled "What happens with you live abroad" offered a perspective I had not considered about decisions moving forward. The post explained (among other insights) that sometimes when people make a move, its not always a concern about where they are going, but rather what they could potentially be leaving behind.

I was so focused on where this program would take me that when I had that vision sorted it, I couldn't understand why the decision was still difficult. I finally recognized that my struggles were around leaving behind the comforts and familiar environment that I have now.

If you are struggling with a decision to move in a new direction, I encourage you to evaluate where your fears are coming from. It takes time and lots of Q&A within yourself. Remember that there will always be something that you give up when committing to something else. Whatever decision you make...if you embrace it, enjoy it and make it a part of your story, then it will never be a mistake.